Also dreamed of starting to post videos on TikTok and becoming a content creator? You see everyone doing it so effortlessly, and think, “I could do that too.” The idea of creating videos, building a community, and maybe even leaving the 9-to-6 grind seems so tempting. But despite how exciting it looks, something always seems to hold you back. It feels like TikTok could change your life completely, right?
I’ve had countless moments where I’ve wanted to start, and when I think back, I tell myself, “If only I had started sooner, I could have been an influencer by now!” But there’s always something that holds me back. I tell myself I’m not good enough, that I don’t have anything interesting to say, or that I’m not pretty enough to put myself out there. And then, of course, there’s the fear of judgment — what will people think? What about the hate? The thought of opening myself up and allowing the world to comment on my life feels like too much to handle. I have enough going on, and the vulnerability feels overwhelming.
But then, I think about the possibility of just doing it. Of pushing past the fear and starting anyway. We all know it’s common for people to express themselves freely online, but unfortunately, the line between freedom of expression and respect has become blurred. Still, there’s that nagging feeling — I don’t want to leave this world without at least experiencing the feeling of not caring about what others think. I want to be a part of that universe, the one that’s changing lives and creating new opportunities for so many.
The problem is, I keep waiting. I’m waiting to lose weight, to feel beautiful, to get the right camera equipment (and maybe a microphone, lighting, and an iPad to edit), as if those things will magically make me feel “ready.” I’ve signed up for two boot camps, but I haven’t even posted a single video yet. It’s like I keep making excuses for why I’m not starting, and it feels like I’m always on the verge of doing something, but never actually doing it.
Does anyone else feel this way?
What is it that holds you back from taking that first step? Is it the fear of judgment? The worry that you’re not good enough? The constant need to feel “perfect” before you begin?
I know I’m not alone in this, and I’m curious to hear from others who are struggling with the same thing. How have you overcome your fears? What motivated you to hit “post” for the first time?
Let’s share our experiences and support each other in pushing past those barriers.
Anna
